Stop Being So Hard On Yourself!

3 Secrets to Transforming that Self-Sabotaging Critic in your Head into a Self-Empowering Ally Instead

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Join Bestselling Authors and the Co-Founders of Inner Mean Girl™ Reform School, Amy Ahlers & Christine Arylo, for a special Open House webinar!

We’ll show you how to:

  • STOP comparing yourself

  • STOP feeling like you’re always failing or falling behind

  • START LOVING yourself and your life!

Dear Super Woman,

What if you could turn down the volume on that critical voice in your head?

You hear it, right?

“You’re not doing enough… you should be doing more.”

“Everyone else has it all figured out… what’s wrong with you?”

“You are not pretty enough, thin enough, rich enough, smart enough…”

“No one really loves you. You are unlovable. Damaged goods.”

“It’s too late.”

“Don’t even try… you’ll just fail.”

What other BIG FAT LIES is it filling your head with?


Meet Your “Inner Mean Girl”

This opinionated, super critical being has put herself in the driver’s seat of your life – and your mind — to show you all the ways in which you are not enough… don’t do enough… and don’t have enough.

But what if I told you it doesn’t have to be this way. You CAN transform your Inner Mean Girl from worst enemy to biggest ally — a true Super Hero.

And we’re going to show you how!

During our 90-minute webinar, you’ll learn:

Why do you…

  • Compare yourself?
  • Constantly feel like you are falling behind, or never measuring up?
  • Set yourself up to fail?
  • Continuously put yourself last?

The Most Common Types of Inner Mean Girls & The Weapons They Use to Steal Your Joy… and see which one is running your life

  • There are over 17 different archetypes of the Inner Mean Girl – we’ll introduce you to three of the most common Comparison Queen, Perfectionist, and Loveless Lulu.
  • You’ll gain awareness as to which ones are running you right now (Awareness is step #1 in Inner Mean Girl transformation!)
  • You’ll gain the power to be kinder, gentler and more compassionate with yourself… you won’t be at the mercy of this voice, you’ll be more in control.

How to Tell the Difference Between Your Fear & Self-Doubt Talking Smack and Your Inner Wisdom Speaking Truth

  • Sometimes it’s hard to distinguish between the voices in your head – we’ll share with you how to tell the difference
  • You’ll gain the skill to tune into your Inner Wisdom so you can make faster, better decisions that actually lead to happiness and success.

What to Do When You Start to Compare, Criticize, Judge, and Doubt Yourself…learn how to switch the channel in your  mind in less than 5 minutes!

  • We’ll share simple but mighty processes that empower you to transform negative self-talk into smart Inner Wisdom talk in the moment – including the Self-Love Soak and the 3-Step Wake Up Call
  • You’ll gain the power to head comparison, self-judgment and self-doubt off at the pass, so they don’t hijack your day!

The Steps to Re-Deploying Your Inner Mean Girl by Assigning Her a Brand New Job

  • One that helps instead of hurts! We show you how to use her powers for good vs. evil, and gain a new ally on team YOU.

The most important relationship in your life is your relationship with YOU.

When you transform it, everything else transforms, too.


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“Over the course of a few years,  knowing Amy and Christine and their work reforming the Inner Mean Girl, I have found their work to be one of the most powerful programs in helping women step out of their own way and into their heart.
-Kristine Carlson, NY Times Bestselling Author of Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Women and Moms!

“The Inner Mean Girl Reform School is absolutely dynamite. Amy Ahlers and Christine Arylo have developed a program that masterfully teaches women how to stop being so  hard on themselves.”
-Marci Shimoff, NY Times Bestselling Author of Love for No Reason and Happy for No Reason

“As Amy and Christine’s legal advisor, business priestess, and a beneficiary of their work, I can tell you without a doubt that these two women are the real deal when it comes to helping women to break free of the self-sabotaging voice of the Inner Critic. They are truly masterful!”
-Alexis Neely, Truth Telling Lawyer and Evolutionary Strategist

About Your Transformational Guides:

Christine Arylo. Inspirational catalyst, bestselling author of Madly In Love with Me and Choosing ME before WE

Screen shot 2013-03-27 at 2.51.42 PMChristine Arylo is an internationally recognized inspirational catalyst and spiritual coach and the self-love author of Choosing ME before WE, Everywoman’s Guide to Life and Love and bestselling author of Madly in Love with ME, the Daring Adventure to Becoming Your Own Best Friend..

Christine has been dubbed the ‘Queen of Self-Love’ for her daring and groundbreaking work to make self-love a tangible reality for people around the world, including founding the international day of self-love on February 13th, often referred to as Madly in Love with ME™ Day. Christine’s opinions have aired on E! Entertainment, CBS, FOX and ABC and radio shows across the country, as well as in the Huffington Post, San Francisco Chronicle and Daily Om.

A self-admitted, but recovering achievement junkie, Kellogg m.b.a. and a former marketing executive for companies like Gap, Visa and Frito-Lay, Christine is also the co-founder of Inner Mean Girl™ Reform School, a school dedicated to transforming people’s inner critics into their inner superheroines.

When not out in the world speaking, teaching and leading transformational experiences and super fun retreats in locales around the world, Christine can be found hanging out with her soul partner Noah and their soul tribe of spectacular people in beautiful places enjoying good food, great wine and meaningful (and laughter-filled) conversation.


Amy Ahlers, The Wake-Up Call Coach and bestselling author of Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves

Amy turquoiseAmy Ahlers, The Wake-Up Call Coach and bestselling author of Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves, is on a mission to wake up your Inner Superstar so you shine bright! After years of being a top producing online media Sales Executive she discovered the world of coaching in 2000 and never looked back. She is an International Certified Success Coach, the CEO of Wake-Up Call Coaching, the co-founder of Inner Mean Girl™ Reform School  and Find Your Calling with Martha Beck and Lissa Rankin.

Amy has been a featured expert on lots of  TV & radio shows, and for publications like The Washington PostThe Huffington Post, and Oakland Magazine. She loves lighting up the stage at retreats, conferences and conventions where she wakes people up to the voice of their Inner Wisdom and helps them cultivate the courage to act on it.   Her first book, Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves: Ditch your Inner Critic and Wake Up Your Inner Superstar was released in October 2011 by New World Library and shot up to #1 in several categories on Amazon, including Self-Help, Happiness and Self-Esteem.

A recent recipient of a Women Who Dare Award from Girls Inc., she holds a BA from the University of California, earned the CPCC (Certified Professional Co-Active Coach) designation from The Coaches Training Institute, is a Bigger Game Certified Coach, is a certified Business Coach from with John Assaraf’s OneCoach, and is a Master Coach Equivalent. When not working, you’ll  find Amy in the San Francisco Bay Area holding hands with her extraordinary husband, Rob, and daughters Annabella and Evie Rose.


We SO look forward to gathering with you at one of our upcoming Open Houses.

To share our best stories, best tools and best wisdom. 


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