Dear Super Woman,
What if you could turn down the volume on that critical voice in your head?
You hear it, right…
“Other people are building their businesses faster and better than you are.”
“You’re doing this ALL wrong. Why can’t you make better decisions?”
“You’ll never make it- you are just not good enough.”
“You don’t have TIME to relax. You’d better keep working!”
“Sure, you started a business, but you’ll never achieve REAL success.”
What other BIG FAT LIES is it filling your head with?
DO YOU KNOW WHO THIS VOICE IS?…
Meet Your “Inner Mean Girl”
This opinionated, super critical being has put herself in the driver’s seat of your life and on the board of directors of your business to show you all the ways in which you are not enough… don’t do enough… and don’t have enough.
When she is in charge you get a big fat “F” – for Failing, Falling behind, and Feeling like you never measure up. She drives you hard toward a goal you’ll never reach, because she keeps moving the finish line! Or maybe she keeps you small — so your dream business never materializes. Or maybe she just won’t let you relax, reminding you there is ALWAYS work to do… not to mention the constant berating about the mistakes you make along the way. (And never mind the successes and actually celebrating…you’re only hearing about your failures.)
You know you’re smart – but, as your Inner Mean Girl likes to remind you, maybe you’re not smart enough. Or maybe you’re not “meant” to do this, after all. You thought it was your dream, but maybe you were wrong.
Here’s the thing: inside your mind, you’ve got a board of directors. Who’s on it? If it’s your Inner Mean Girl, you’re spending money you shouldn’t be, you’re in relationships that don’t benefit you, and you’re wasting precious resources. You’re making decisions that aren’t moving you forward, toward your goals. You’re overwhelmed and overworked, and you feel like you live in a state of chaos.
If your Inner Mean Girl is in charge, no marketing strategy or business building tool is going to work … you’ll continue to sabotage yourself and your business success, not to mention your happiness and peace of mind!
And we don’t have to tell you – none of this feels good. In fact it hurts..
But don’t despair… we have GREAT NEWS!!!
#1 YOU ARE NOT ALONE… ALL WOMEN HAVE THIS SAME NEGATIVE SELF TALK DESPITE APPEARANCES
How do we know?
In the past two and a half years, we have spoken with over 20,000 women through our programs at Inner Mean Girl Reform School – from ages 6 to 96, on every continent except Antarctica, every race, economic and lifestyle status… and the common denominator?
All women and girls are extremely hard on themselves… often put themselves last… and are more likely to self-sabotage and self-criticize than be self-compassionate, self-acknowledging or self-empowering.
There is an Inner Mean Girl Epidemic happening on our planet!
#2 WE HAVE THE SELF-LOVE PRESCRIPTION!
Not only have we helped thousands of women around the globe transform their negative, self-critical voice, but we’ve also transformed our own Inner Mean Girls from our worst enemies to biggest allies – true Super-Heroines.
And this summer, we’re sharing our prescription – with YOU!
#3 YOU CAN SEND YOUR INNER MEAN GIRL TO SUMMER CAMP THIS SUMMER… so you can enjoy your summer (and the rest of your life!)
This summer we are calling for a REVOLUTION… for any woman ready to give up the self-criticism and self-sabotage and exchange it for self-love – self empowerment, self compassion, self acknowledgement. When you do, you’ll find that your business grows AND you have time to take care of yourself – because you’re finally making choices based on self-love rather than BIG FAT LIES. We know!
As entrepreneurs ourselves, we’ve had to face the same Inner Mean Girl B.S. – she still tries to creep in from time to time. But here’s the difference, we have her number, whenever she gets out of line and tries to sabotage us, we know exactly how to put her in her place, and listen to our Inner Wisdom’s instead.
Join us for a 90-minute special Inner Mean Girl Reform School “Summer Camp” session… a tele-jam! – where we will tell the truth about this epidemic affecting women everywhere… share three of our BEST SUPER POWER INNER MEAN GIRL TRANSFORMATION TOOLS… and also reveal the secrets behind where Inner Mean Girls come from:
During our 90-minute tele-jam, you’ll learn:
- Compare yourself
- Constantly feel like you are falling behind, or never measuring up
- Set yourself up to fail in life and in business
- Continuously put yourself last, working yourself ragged, overworking and over-committing
- Not getting the results or achieving the level of success you want an deserve
- You’ll start to see how you have empowered your inner critic to set up a business that isn’t serving or sustaining you.
The Most Common Types of Inner Mean Girls & The Weapons They Use to Keep You From The Success & Happiness You Work So Hard For
- There are over 17 different archetypes of the Inner Mean Girl – we’ll introduce you to some of the most common Comparison Queen, Achievement Junkie, Doing Addict and Perfectionist.
- You’ll gain awareness as to which ones are running you — and your business – right now (Awareness is step #1 in Inner Mean Girl transformation!).
How to Tell the Difference Between Your Fear & Self-Doubt Talking Smack and Your Inner Wisdom Speaking Truth
- Sometimes it’s hard to distinguish between the voices in your head – we’ll share with you how to tell the difference – even in times of stress.
- You’ll gain the skill to tune into your Inner Wisdom so you can make faster, better decisions that actually lead to happiness and business success.
What to Do When You Start to Compare, Criticize, Judge, and Doubt Yourself…learn how to switch the channel in your mind in less than 5 minutes!
- We’ll share simple but mighty processes that empower you to transform negative self-talk into smart Inner Wisdom talk in the moment – including the Self-Love Soak and the 3-Step Wake Up Call
- You’ll gain the power to head comparison, self-judgment and self-doubt off at the pass, so they don’t hijack your day, your team and your bottom line!
The Steps to Re-Deploying Your Inner Mean Girl by Assigning Her a Brand New Job
- One that helps instead of hurts! We’ll show you how to use her powers for good vs. evil, and gain a new ally on team YOU. She can actually become a stellar employee if you know how to redeploy her.
The most important business partner you’ll ever have is YOU.
When you get on your side and off your own back, everything else falls into place.
If your Inner Mean Girl is sitting on your board of directors, your business cannot afford to miss the opportunity to transform her this summer. Do yourself the favor, and sign her (and you) up today! It’s free… and we would LOVE to support you in being the great woman you know yourself to be!
SEE YOU AT THE TELE-JAM!
Amy & Christine
Co-founders of Inner Mean Girl Reform School
Self-Love Revolutionaries on a Mission to Reform Inner Mean Girls Everywhere
“Over the course of a few years, knowing Amy and Christine and their work reforming the Inner Mean Girl, I have found their work to be one of the most powerful programs in helping women step out of their own way and into their heart.”
-Kristine Carlson, Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Women and Moms!
“The Inner Mean Girl Reform School is absolutely dynamite. Amy Ahlers and Christine Arylo have developed a program that masterfully teaches women how to stop being so hard on themselves.”
-Marci Shimoff, NY Times Bestselling Author of Love for No Reason and Happy for No Reason
“As Amy and Christine’s legal advisor, business priestess, and a beneficiary of their work, I can tell you without a doubt that these two women are the real deal when it comes to helping women to break free of the self-sabotaging voice of the Inner Critic. They are truly masterful!”
-Alexis Neely, Truth Telling Lawyer and Evolutionary Strategist
About Your Transformational Guides:
Christine Arylo. Inspirational catalyst, self-love author of Choosing ME before WE
Christine Arylo is an internationally recognized inspirational catalyst and spiritual coach and the self-love author of Choosing ME before WE, Everywoman’s Guide to Life and Love and Madly in Love with ME, the Daring Adventure to Becoming Your Own Best Friend, which comes out in the Fall of 2012.
Christine has been dubbed the ‘Queen of Self-Love’ for her daring and groundbreaking work to make self-love a tangible reality for people around the world, including founding the international day of self-love on February 13th, often referred to as Madly in Love with ME™ Day. Christine’s opinions have aired on E! Entertainment, CBS, FOX and ABC and radio shows across the country, as well as in the Huffington Post, San Francisco Chronicle and Daily Om.
A self-admitted, but recovering achievement junkie, Kellogg m.b.a. and a former marketing executive for companies like Gap, Visa and Frito-Lay, Christine is also the co-founder of Inner Mean Girl Reform School, a school dedicated to transforming people’s inner critics into their inner superheroines.
When not out in the world speaking, teaching and leading transformational experiences and super fun retreats in locales around the world, Christine can be found hanging out with her soul partner Noah and their soul tribe of spectacular people in beautiful places enjoying good food, great wine and meaningful (and laughter-filled) conversation.
Amy Ahlers, The Wake-Up Call Coach and bestselling author of Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves
Amy Ahlers, The Wake-Up Call Coach and bestselling author of Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves, is on a mission to wake up your Inner Superstar so you shine bright! After years of being a top producing online media Sales Executive she discovered the world of coaching in 2000 and never looked back. She is an International Certified Success Coach, the CEO of Wake-Up Call Coaching, the co-founder of Inner Mean Girl Reform School and the creator of The Exposing the Big Fat Lies Summit & The Women Masters Tele-Seminar Series, where she has spoken alongside luminaries such as Marianne Williamson, SARK, Lisa Nichols, Marci Shimoff and many more.
Amy has been a featured expert on lots of TV & radio shows, and for publications like The Washington Post, The Huffington Post, and Oakland Magazine. She loves lighting up the stage at retreats, conferences and conventions where she wakes people up to the voice of their Inner Wisdom and helps them cultivate the courage to act on it. Her first book, Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves: Ditch your Inner Critic and Wake Up Your Inner Superstar was released in October 2011 by New World Library and shot up to #1 in several categories on Amazon, including Self-Help, Happiness and Self-Esteem.
A recent recipient of a Women Who Dare Award from Girls Inc., she holds a BA from the University of California, earned the CPCC (Certified Professional Co-Active Coach) designation from The Coaches Training Institute, is a Bigger Game Certified Coach, is a certified Business Coach from with John Assaraf’s OneCoach, and is a Master Coach Equivalent. When not working, you’ll find Amy in the San Francisco Bay Area holding hands with her extraordinary husband, Rob, skipping down the street (or running after!) her firecracker of a daughter, Annabella, and hiking in the hills with her rescue mutt, Dozer.
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